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atx_destiny
19 May 2009 @ 07:41 pm


So it's been too long since I wrote last!  Facebook has taken over my free time!  Thanks Julie :P  Anyhow, here's an update.  Mark and I closed on April 6.  We're officially home owners.  It doesn't feel real yet, I don't think it will until we actually move in at the end of June.  Our stupid landlord wouldn't work w/ us on moving out early w/o us paying him an extra $1000.00 bucks and still paying the last months rent, all the utilities and maintaining the yard.  We can't just move out anyway because there's an abandoment clause in the lease.  Oh well, it gives us more time to get stuff done.

We spent the first several weekends removing 720 bricks, 163 12X12 pavers, about a ton of loose rock, and all sorts of other strange things out of our new backyard.  We currently have takers for all of it, we'll see if that all comes through :)  It was hot, sweaty, sore muscle inducing work!  But well worth it, I even got a tan!  Me, little Irish fair skinned girl got a tan!!! LOL.  We have primed and painted the guest room and guest bath.  We removed most of the hideous wallpaper and with the help of may of our great friends we got two coats of paint up in the living room and one coat in the kitchen/dining room and 1/2 bath. We need to do another coat in the living/dining room and 1/2 bath and do all the detail work in all the rooms.  I am not looking foward to painting all the window frames.  It will be well worth it when it's all finished.   We have the bonus room walls prepped and hopefully we'll get them and the stairwell primed this weekend.

We knew the house wasn't perfect when we bought it, and we didn't really have a ton of choice in the matter considering it was  HUD foreclosure, but we've run into a major cost.  The condensor coil in the inside unit has several major leaks.  They came out and  got it up and running and said it would last 6 weeks to two months.  Well, alas, it didn't even make it two weeks.  So now we have to spend 1400 bucks to get it fixed.  Such is the life of a homeowner, or so I've been told.  I look at it this way, it's a lot better than paying 7500 for a whole new unit and it's better than the initial estimate of 2000+ labor.  They're coming on Thursday to do the work.

So enough babbling about the house!  Other things have been happening in my life too.  The biggest being that the Eccles have told me that come fall they can no longer keep me as their nanny.  I am so sad about this!  I love those kids!  I know that we are all friends and will continue to see each other, but it's just sad I won't get to see and interact w/ them every day.  Beau and Bethann have been great about it and promised me they won't leave me hanging and have in fact already started looking for a new job for me.  Bethann is rewriting my resume, LOL!  I know they hate to see me go as much as I hate leaving. 

I am publicity chair for ASMC this year.  Right now I'm working on getting lots of stuff finished for that.  The major thing I'm doing right now is delivering all the books we purchase w/ the grant from the Jr. League.  The show this year is going to be SO awesome, we're doing Pinocchio.  You should go check out the website: www.summermusical.com

Well, I guess that's about it for now!

 

 
 
Current Mood: content
Current Music: Watching American Idol
 
 
atx_destiny
04 April 2009 @ 08:16 am

Here I sit w/ my parents waiting for Mark to get home w/ some fresh Round Rock Donuts, then the rental units are heading back to south Texas.  Mom and Dad's home was blown away last July by Hurricane Dolly.  They finally got the replacement house in January and have since been trying to get back into the house, purchase new furniture, and get unpacked.  The furniture shopping has been the crux of their existence.  They ventured up here to try out our numerous furniture stores and finally stuck pay dirt at Furniture Warehouse just down the interstate from our current residence.  Dad will be back in May some time to pick up the bedroom furniture and they are going to decide what they want to do about the office furniture.  It's been nice having them visit but I'm ready for life to get back to normal.

So Mark was finally approved for the home loan.  Even though I have a better credit score, they don't like me because I haven't been a nanny for over two years, at least I'm going to be on the title :P  I never want to buy a house again, this has been the biggest pain in the ass ordeal I have ever been through. I mean you'd think in this economy they would want to us to take some of their (The Federal Government) off their hands, but no, they're more worried that we're terrorists. Mark and I, born and raised here in the United States, Mark, living here in Austin for nearly 16 years.  Yeah, I'm a little bitter :P  Anyhow, we are suppossedly closing on Monday April 6, I'll believe it when I see it.  Mark and I have decided that we aren't ever moving, when we die, we want the house impolded, LOL.

Other than that, things are pretty quiet.  I am ready for vacation, it's a shame it's still two months away!

 
 
atx_destiny
12 March 2009 @ 04:01 pm

So, Mark and I had been tossing around the idea of buying a HUD foreclosure.  We found one in Round Rock that we were intrested in but it needed a lot of work.  So the realtor who had it listed was like, "I have something much better that you're going to want to see."  So off we went.  The house he showed us was perfect.  It only as minor things that need to be done to it.  So we put in a bid of $133,500.00 and crossed our fingers.  As it turns out WE WON!!!  If we hadn't bid what we did, we wouldn't have won it, as we found out we won by only a couple of hundred dollars.  So we found out on Friday March 13th that we won, and I find that totally amusing.

So that's whe the fun stuff began.  Below is a list of all the hoops we've had to jump through so far:

1.  We had to sign the contract w/in 48 hours.  CHECK!
2.  Once the contract was accepted, we had to have the inspection w/in 15 days, here's the twist to that one, we can only have the utilities on for 48 hours or we could face a HUGE fine from HUD.  We also had to have to utilities turned on in our names and at our expense.  CHECK!
3.  We had the inspection done, called back to get the utilities turned off.  TXU decided to be jerks and said it would be closer to 76 hours that the power would be on, they failed to mention when I scheduled them to be turned on that it took 2 days lead time to have them turned bak off.  They have now lost a customer.
4.  Apply for the loan that we've already been pre-approved for.  Oh yeah, and this is a whole new bunch of hoops to jump through.  Where did this money come from?  Sign these 50 forms.  Get a letter from this person.  Get a bank statement from there, show me proof of insurance.  Oh yeah, we need your first born child too.... As of today we still don't know if we got the loan!  The latest confusion w/ this is the fact that I haven't had two solid years in one profession in the last five years so now they're running the loan under just Mark.... GEEZ!  Oh yeah, and now they want twice as much money at closing as they originally indicated.... Cause I have an extra five grand laying around... :P
5.  Inspection is done, only minor things are wrong.  The biggest being the garage door needs to be replaced.  The AC and Furnace are undersized.  The garbage disposal doesn't work.  Those are the worst ones :)
6.  Oh yeah, you have to close w/in 45 days of them accepting the contract or you have to start paying HUD $25.00/day  So now that has moved closing up, gee, I hope we have a loan by then :)

Well, that's about it from here :)  If you'd like to see the house, visit:  www.markanderinn.com/gallery  Look for the pictures of 1112 Champion Dr.

I'll keep you updated!

 
 
Current Location: Austin, TX
Current Mood: frustrated
Current Music: Watching Star Wars w/ Mara
 
 
atx_destiny
06 March 2009 @ 04:32 pm

Over the past few days I have been fortunate enough to reunite w/ my ex-mother-in-law, Peggy,  and one of my ex-nieces, Dena.  I have always maintained contact w/ dumbass's Aunt Michelle.  We have emailed back and forth over the years since I left him.  So the other night I asked her if she was on facebook and she was like yep, I sure am and so is Peggy, she just joined.  So I sent Peggy a message telling her if it wasn't too weird for her, I'd love to add her. She almost immediately responded and added me and through her I found Dena.  Dena and I have spent several hours talking now and are all caught up.  It's so good to know how much they still love me and how much Dena has really missed me. I love both of them to bits and I'm so happy to be back in contact. 

When Dena and I were talking, she told me that she didn't know what really happened between me and dumbass, but that she really dislikes the whore and refuses to call her aunt :)  That made me feel good and it also made me laugh.  Anyhow, I figure, she's 18 now, she's old enough to know what really happened.  So I gave her the PG rated version of what really happened, and she was of course completely appauled and says that now she hates the whore even more. LOL!   She also told me that the whore is VERY UPSET that I have added Peggy and Dena to my friends list, she thinks I am going to try to steal dumbass back. WHATEVER!!!! Him cheating on me was the best thing that ever happened to me!  I love the fact that Peggy told her it was none of her damn business who Dena or she were friends with :) LOL !!!   I have the whore blocked on facebook so that she won't give me any hassle and so she can't see what I've written to Dena and Peggy.  I figure it will be much less drama that way.

Truly, the hardest part about getting divoced was loosing certain parts of dumbass's family.

It's good to know I made an impression and I am loved.

 
 
Current Location: Austin, TX
Current Mood: cheerful
Current Music: Listenng to Signs.
 
 
atx_destiny
03 March 2009 @ 04:17 pm
Finally!  Mom and Dad got their new mobile home today.  Now, this may not seem like big news, but keep in mind their house was blown away by Hurricane Dolly back on July 23, 2008.  They have had quite the haul.  Mom says that there are some mistakes in the house.  They put in the wrong carpet, some of the shutters are missing and a few other things.  I told her she should just be glad they finally have it.  They were suppossed to have it in October of 2008.  They have had the crappiest year!!!  I'm going down to visit them during spring break so that I can help them finish up w/ the moving.  Oh, and the owners of the park where they live are being jerks.  They had agreed to the hardy board siding that Mom and Dad had before, now they are saying that mom and dad need to put vinyl siding on it or they are going to kick them out of the park.  Why are people like that?
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: chipper
Current Music: Watching TV
 
 
atx_destiny
14 February 2009 @ 04:32 pm
It's a good Valentine's Day :)

First off, we won the auction on the foreclosure we bid on.  Great news there, I'll post on that later.  Mark let me sleep in this morning.  Then we went out to lunch at Pappasitos.  They have THE best fajitas ever :)  Mark bought me my favorite flowers, stargazer lillies, they are goregous.  He also got me my favorite chocolates.  YUMMY!  Finally, he also bough me an orignal Sarah Fisher, necklace.  It's a beautiful handmade heart bead, that's just goregous.  It's strung on black cord w/ silver accents.  I LOVE IT :)

I gave Mark a heart shaped box of chocolate, totally cliche but he loves them.  The computer geek that he is, I also bought him all the Star Wars games for the PC.  He loved it.

All and all it was a very nice quiet day :)  Right up my alley, considering at one time I thought about forevermore boycotting it :)  For those of you who don't know, both of my Grandmothers died on Valentine's Day.  The first in 1987 when I was in 7th grade, the second in 1998 when I was living up in Minneapolis.  It's just a sad day. Mark has done a good job of making it a special day again.
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: content
Current Music: Watching DVR w/ my baby!
 
 
atx_destiny
15 December 2008 @ 10:09 pm

Well honestly this was probably the strangest vacation Mark and I have ever taken.  We left, before dawn, from Austin on Thanksgiving day and flew into Atlanta, there we had a three hour layover and found out there were two flights to Ft. Lauderdale before ours.  We askd and they said we couldn't get on an earlier flight that we had to wait for our luggage.  Oh well, we killed the time. So, we get to Ft. Lauderdale and promptly hear our names called over the loudspeaker, guess what, our luggage got there before we did.  Stupid airlines.  So, we get our bags and our rental car and head off for the 90 minute drive to Key Largo. 

We are really excited about this trip, we rented a nice houseboat for the 9 days we're there, we get there and we are utterly disappointed.  The website pictures made this place look and soundgreat, as if we could just swim right off our boat and see manatee and stuff.  Yeah right!  The place was at least 50 years old and had been added on to and not kept up well, it smelled a little funny and there were soft spots in the floor, the kitchen was inadequately supplied, the bathroom sink was dirty, the back of the couch was broken, it just went on and on, we seriously considered forefiting our deposit and staying somewhere else.  Avoid it at all costs!!  Here's their website so you know who to avoid: http://www.keylargohouseboat.com/   In fact, I would avoid Key Largo all together for accomidations.  It was just really rundown and depressing and didn't seem overly tourist friendly.  We liked Islamorada a whole lot better and got a recommendation from a local that we should stay at The Chesapeake Resort in Islamorada, here's their website: http://www.chesapeake-resort.com/ 

Anyhow, true to form, Mark picked dinner the first night and it was just a terrible experience, I'd avoid Rib Daddy's at all costs.  The service was terrible and the food was worse.  The rest of vacation I picked the restaurants and we were much happier.  Our favorites were The Fish House: http://www.fishhouse.com/  I highly recommend the yellow tail snapper either matacumbe style or hemingway style.  Take my word for it, it'sa bit pricey but WELL worth it.  We also enjoyed Hobo's Cafe: http://hoboscafe.net/Hobos_Cafe/Welcome.html They had decent seafood and a lot of americana type fair.  They had this loaded baked potato soup that made me VERY happy when I was sick :)  We also frequented Tower of Pizza, excellent pizza and fun atmosphere, always busy which is an excellent sign.  Another place we went and enjoyed was Mrs. Mac's Kitchen: http://www.mrsmacskitchen.com/  They had this key lime freeze thing that was divine.  Finally we found this very interesting litlte Ice Cream/Coffee/Waffle shop called the Blue Cow Creamery, now they don't have a website but they do have free wi-fi and I found a fun little news story on them: http://www.mrsmacskitchen.com/  They have the best Dulce le Leche ice cream I've ever had in my life.  You should check it out.  Finally a unique experience we had was the Green Turtle Inn in Islamorada: http://www.greenturtlekeys.com/  We went there for dinner on my birthday, they had the most excellent prime rib!  Okay, enough about food :)

The whole reason we went on vacation was to go snorkeling and use all that snorkeling equipment we spent so much money on.  We had the best experience with Sundiver: http://www.snorkelingisfun.com/  We went out w/ them twice and both times it was great.  We really enjoyed the captain and the crew on the boat, they even gave us food recommendations. They even turned us away one day because they were honest enough to tell us that the conditions weren't great, not many businesses would do something like that.  We also went once at Pennekamp State Park, We didn't care for th reef they took us to and really felt like we were treated like four year olds, this is what they call a cattle boat because they cram as many people as they can onto the boat, they also make you snorkel with a buddy which is somewhat annoying because you're always running into each other and it's not like you can talk!  Anyhow, by far and away the most fun we had was sailing on the Morningstar w/ Captain Rick.  He took us to some small mostly unspolied reefs and we really enjoyed the sail when mother nature was cooperating and giving us wind.  This particular charter was $65.00/person plus tax, but WELL worth it, the others ran about $35.00/person plus tax.  Here's his website: http://www.morningstarcharters.com/  Tell him we said "Hi!" hehe.  Finally the other time we went "snorkeling" was when we went to The Theater of The Sea and went swimming w/ the rays.  This was really neat, my only complaint was it didn't last long enough!  We got to feed the rays squid and then we got to swim with them.  One of them tried to eat Mark's leg, it was pretty funny :) 

We had one pretty major mishap wile in the Keys, Mark lost his wallet.  We were on our way out to go snorkeling the first Saturday we were there and Mark and I stopped to pay the man for the boat.  Well, while Mark was signing the receipt he laid his waller on top of the rental car.  He didn't have pockets as he was in his swim trunks, well he left the wallet on top of the car.  Thankfully we didn't go that far before we stopped to pay for the snorkeling.  We ended up walking/driving up and down US 1 looking for the wallet.  As luck or fluke, or whatever would have it, I started finding cash, then receipts, and then even two of Mark's credit cards.  We ended up finding all the cash, we'd just counted it the night before, two of the three credit cards, and most all of the receipts.  What we didn't find was Mark's atm/credit card, his drivers license, or the actual wallet. Totally bizarre.  Thanks to the Eccles, we ended up financing the rest of vacation w/ my check card, they really saved our vacation for us :)

Our last day in the Keys we headed down to Key West, now originally we planned this so we could go to the pirate festival but we figured out that it was going to be cheesy so didn't go.  We did however enjoy the drive down and did a little souvenir shopping and had lunch at a highly overrated place called the Hog's Head Saloon.  We stayed and took a most excellent sunset cruise on the Liberty Clipper: http://www.libertyfleet.com/  This was a really neat boat that we are actually considering vacationing on in 2010.  Mark helped put up the sails, we fired on other pirate ships, we had drinks and appetizers, saw he most amazing sunset which included the green spark! 

The trip home was uneventful, in spite of Mark having no photo ID.  Overall the trip was great!  Mark will eventually upload pictures to our website www.markanderinn.com/gallery   and when he does I'll upload my favorites to facebook. 

Next vacation is planned for the the end of June beginnng of July 2009.  We're planning on going to Cloud 9 to see my parents and Mark's family as well :)

 
 
atx_destiny
07 November 2008 @ 09:05 pm
It's hard to believe but tonight is most probably Mark's last football game for the season.  He may pick up a few playoff assignments but most likely dragging chains.  This season has just flown by!  I've started going to his games since he's been mostly here in town this year.  I try to go to one a week sometimes I make several.  I think going to the games has really helped w/ the loneliness.  He's moving right along in the ranks, I'm so proud of him :)  He graduated from training and will get to just attend the weekly meeting w/ the general members of the organization.  It's hard to believe he now has two full seasons under his belt.  It's amazing to me that he loves it so much and that I was fortunate enough to help get him started in it :)
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: contemplative
Current Music: Watching Season 2 of Desperate Housewives
 
 
atx_destiny
13 October 2008 @ 05:05 pm
Okay, so it's al Julie Schwartz's fault!  I am totally addicted to Facebook.  I have found friends from all the wayback to high school!  It's interesting because most of these people wouldn't give me the time of day in HS. Hehe.  It's been great getting back in touch w/ friends from Camp Lakewood, college, my sorority sisters, and staying in touch w/ my current group of friends.  It's a great tool!
 
 
Current Location: Work
Current Mood: chipper
 
 
atx_destiny
13 October 2008 @ 04:33 pm

Let's start w/ the UGLY - Austin traffic.  First, seriously people, they're called turn signals or indicators.  They are supposed to be used to signal your intent, whether it be to change lanes, take an exit, or make a turn.   Second, rush hour traffic is NOT an Indy Car race, weaving in and out of traffic to get there three-tenths of a second faster is DANGEROUS and STUPID, not to mention rude to the people you are cutting off and narrowly avoiding missing.  Third, it's called a SPEED LIMIT, it's not a suggestion, and it’s the LAW.  Finally,  is there some unwritten code that if you drive a Lexus, BMW, Mercedes, or other such car that costs more than $30,000.00, that you must drive like an asshole?  I mean really, do you have to sign a contract?  I know this doesn't apply to everyone who owns and drives one of these cars, it just seems that the majority of the people doing all the things I have been whining and complaining about above.

On to the BAD -  Bethann's (My employer) dad was removed from life support today.  He will probably pass in the next 48 hours or so.  On one level this is good because he will no longer be suffering and his family's lives can return to some resemblance of normalcy.  It's always hard to lose a loved one.  Sadly, this is probably going to screw up Beau's (the other half of the employer) 40th birthday, and Mark and I's first anniversary.  Chances are we'll all be in Dallas dealing with the funeral and what not. *sigh*  what a way to spend my first anniversary!

The GOOD -  Mark and I will be celebrating our first anniversary a week from today.  I can't believe it's been a year already.  We've had our rough patches but we've come through stronger than before.  It helps that the psycho bitch finally showed her true colors to Mark and he can now see her for what she truly is instead of keeping her on a pedestal.  I will always cherish the words he spoke to me a couple of weeks ago. "You were right, I was wrong.  I shouldn’t have kept talking to her, I never should have met her.  I will do everything in my power to make it up to you."  Such sweet vindication at last.
Completely stupid GOOD -  My UT Longhorns are #1 after beating those devilish OU Sooners. :)  HOOK 'EM HORNS!!!


That's it from here!

 
 
Current Location: Work
Current Mood: content
 
 
atx_destiny
23 September 2008 @ 02:00 pm


i am: a loving wife.
i think: life is too short to not be happy.
i know: my husband loves me.
i want: to lose weight
i have: a wonderful husband anda job I love.
i wish: I could help all my loved ones be happy.
i hate: liars and drama queens
i miss: my best friends
i fear: losing someone I love
i feel: secure and loved
i hear: the squirlls in the yard fighting
i smell: yummy fresh bread
i crave: a venti mocha frappacino from Starbucks
i search: for my path in life.
i wonder: why life is so full of surprises.
i regret: that my brother won't speak to me
i love: my husband, my dog, my job, my life
i ache: for my friends and family w/ loved ones in the war.
i care: about what's happening to this country
i always: try to do the right thing.
i am not: what you would expect
i believe: faith, love at first sight, vacations.
i dance: even though i can't
i sing: every chance i get

i don't always: tell my friends i love them often enough
i fight: for what i believe in
i write: about my feelings
i win: every day i'm with Mark and I am happy that he is mine.
i lose: only when i don't try.
i never: want to forget how fortunate i am
i confuse: easily
i listen: to my gut instincts
i can usually be found: w/ the kids i nanny for or w/ Mark
i am scared: of being poor
i need: unconditional love
i am happy about: being proven right.
i tag: anyone who wants to be tagged!

 
 
Current Location: Work
Current Mood: contemplative
Current Music: Robots (the cartoon)
 
 
atx_destiny
06 September 2008 @ 12:55 pm
Last night was SO fun.  Took me forever to find the damn place, because the map lied :)  It is not on 1431 and Sam Bass.  You take 1431 to Sam Bass and then drive like a mile or two.  Anyhow, perochial school people are hilarious, I sat there and listened to them talk about family and normal things, then they started bitching about the churches they go to and or went to and about all the political bullshit.  It was funny, what ever happened to do unto others as you'd have done unto you?

There was a prayer before the game where they prayed for the officials, that was entertaining and made me smile.  I sat off by myself and watched, the stands slowly filled and then the kids started in.  I got ran into and stepped on too many time!  The game itself was pretty uneventful aside from the fact that no one seemed to be able to get an extra point.  Six man football is just an odd beast, the field is only 80 yards long and 40 yards wide.  I had fun though.  Mark was wonderful :)  The funniest thing was half time.  All the kids in the stadium just went on the field and played, it was so odd!
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: chipper
Current Music: TV
 
 
atx_destiny
02 September 2008 @ 07:32 pm

It was my first day back on a more normal schedule.  It was a bit rough.  Got the little guy on time, took him home and made him lunch.  While he was eating I changed the sheets on his bed and big sister's bed.  Put the little guy down for nap and read him a couple of books, wouldn't let him keep them because I was afraid we'd have a repeat performance of Friday, ie NO NAP.  This just wouldn't do since we had to go to gymnastics for Mara for the first time tonight.  We had a long talk about how napping was part of his "job" and how he would have to do it until he went to elementary school like big sister.  I told him that if he chose not to nap today he would have no more books the rest of the week.  He went right to sleep. Yea me!  Then things got ugly.  I woke him up to go get big sister and he whined and cried over everything for the next 30 or so minutes until I finally had to send him to his room and tell him he couldn't come out until he was done w/ the behavior or he was going to stay in there till time to go to gymnastics.  Meanwhile, big sister was giving me a very hard time about correcting her homework and working on one of her bluebonnet reports since she forgot her book at school.  I ended up having a talk w/ her mom so that mom and dad could have a talk with her about her attitude toward doing/correcting her homework.  I know both kids are just having a hard time getting back into the swing of school, but man, that kind of day just wears me out!.  Okay, done venting, off to make dinner. 

 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: aggravated
Current Music: Watching the Soup
 
 
atx_destiny
24 August 2008 @ 11:04 am

Well, I'm not sure what happened.  It went by in the blink of an eye.  The oldest goes back to school tomorrow and the youngest starts the day after Labor Day.  I'm looking forward to going back to a more normal/consistent schedule.

Football season has started in earnest.  So begins my football widowhood, literally.  Mark will have 3-8 games a week including Pop Warner so I will only get to see him on Sundays.  Otherwise we're like ships passing in the night.  Good Night, Good Morning, How was your day?  Have a good day...yeah, that's about the extent of it.

On a lighter note I'm plotting for our anniversary.  I know he doesn't read my journal so I'll say I'm planning a stay in a bed and breakfast or a hotel and massage for the two fo us, I've also ordered some naughty lingerie for me to wear for him.  It's hard to believe it's been nearly a year already!!  I wonder what he's plannning...

 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: content
 
 
atx_destiny
22 August 2008 @ 11:01 am
Went to Six Flags Fiesta Texas with the family I work for.  It was pretty fun though entirely too humiliating.  I didn't fit in any of my favorite ride.  It's time for this fat cow to go on a diet and get back to exercising.  I cried when I woudln't even fit on the swings.  I hate that my body betrays me so, having POS is the pits.  The treatment they put me on for it just gave me diahrea all the time which I coudln't deal with.  I will get back to eating right and not so much and exercising and see what happens. Mark is gung ho to lose weight too so he's more fit for officiating.  We both need to do it for our health.  *Sigh*
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: angry
 
 
atx_destiny
09 August 2008 @ 10:46 am
Last night was our annual Gala and Silent Auction.  I think it was a huge success!  We made nearly $5,000.00 and everyone seemed to have a really good time.  I am so proud of us as a group.  We all work so hard to make this non-profit a success.  The family I work for won the pair of season tickets to the Wrangler's.  That shoudl be fun!  Five shows left in the next two days and we put "Sour Grapes" to rest and the end of our 2008 season. 
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: cheerful
 
 
atx_destiny
07 August 2008 @ 10:38 am
I've been pretty depressed this week and couldn't figure out why.  It dawned on me that Tuesday would have been my 8th anniversary if my first marriage would have worked out.  I wonder if I will ever get past the hurt.  Now don't get me wrong, I don't wallow in it or anything and most of the time I never think about it.  Sometimes though it creeps up on me and hits me upside the head and heart.  I know that the failure of it wasn't really my fault.  I wasn't a perfect wife, but then who is, but I didn't deserve what he did to me.  

I love my current husband so much.  I chose so much better this time.  He has his faults, but so do I.  There are moments I wonder if I was dumb to get married again, but then the rest of the time, the majority of the time even, I know he loves me and would never purposefully hurt me.  

They say that it takes 1/2 as long as you were together for you to get past the feelings and stuff involved in a failed marriage.  we were together six years.  I think it was officially over for me on our anniversary in 2005 when I found out that he was planning on meeting the whore behind my back.  So I guess that means that as of last Tuesday I should be over it.  I think I'm mostly there :)  Mark says that it will get better and I believe him, since he was cheated on too, he should know. 
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: depressed
 
 
atx_destiny
06 August 2008 @ 10:53 am
Last night I had the girls over for a slumber party.  We had dinner and tortured Mark with Harry Potter 3 and then since they were so good I let them stay up to watch the Simpson's.  We had a good time and the girls were a delight.  We'll do it again sometime. 
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: giggly
 
 
atx_destiny
05 August 2008 @ 10:30 am
Got a call from Mom on July 30, they were on their way back from picking up the fifth-wheel travel trailer in Missouri, convinced her and dad to stop here and stay for a bit and go mobile home shopping here.  Their mobile home has been declared a total loss and will have to be replaced.  It was so hard hearing mom cry.  "Over 50 years living in Illinois, living through tornados, blizzards, floods, we never had this kind of damage."  That's the difference between a mobile home and a real house.  

We went out to dinner on Thursday night with the family I nanny for.  Mom and Dad had never been to Rudy's before and hadn't met my work family so a lot of fun was had by all, we spent nearly 2 hours there :)  I think it was a good respite from all the stress for both of them.

On Friday the show started and Mom and Dad were able to come and enjoy it and see what it is that Mark and I are so passionate about.  Mom was very surprised by how good it was, she didn't realize it was so professional and classy.  I thought Stephen was gonna slap her for that comment.  LOL.

Mom and Dad stayed through the weekend and came and saw the show again and they did tons of shopping to replace the clothes they lost in the hurricane as well as for the cruise their going on in September.  How ironic that the day before they lost thier home they booked a 20 day Alaska/Hawaii cruise.  I'm glad they did though, they are going to need the vacation and I know mom wouldn't have booked it after the fact.

Mom and Dad left today, I miss them and I know they have such a mess to go back to.  My prayers are with them.
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: blah
 
 
atx_destiny
27 July 2008 @ 10:49 am
Well, yesterday was the Wrangler's last home game of the season, it was fan appreciation day and we got to go down on the field and run through the helmet and stay for the player introductions and the national anthem.  It was SOOO neat!!!  I love me some Wrangler's!  Mark has turned me into a complete addict.  I also managed to finally get the family I work for out to a game, they had a very good time and said they'd love to go again!  Yeah :)  Sadly, we lost pitifully for the second week in a row, and unbelievably we still made the playoffs.  We're going to be the eight seed and are the sacrificial lamb for the unstoppable Spokane team.  Oh well, at least we made the playoffs in our first year at AF2.  There's always next year right? 
 
 
Current Location: PflugerRock, TX
Current Mood: crazy
 
 
 
 

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